
met gen on friday to have a girls' chat, something we've not done for half a year (gosh). went shopping, walking until our legs were tired and our pockets broke, before eating dinner at ichiban boshi at wisma. the things we talked about were quite random, from her work to our friends to our families to our lives, but it is nice to be able to be so random.


asked gen what makes her love a guy。and she said it's the little things,一点一滴累积的小事. and i agree it's just so true. i believe you cant love a person for only one thing, and that love does not occur overnight. you have to slowly discover more about a person, before you fall in love. the process of loving a person is so hard, yet so simple. you just have to slowly let nature take its course, and follow your heart. and if you meet the right person and you put in enough effort, you may just find yourself the love of your life, which is such an enviable thing.